Let me finish tonight with this.

I want the American government to work. I want elections to matter, to have Congress act on what people decide in the voting booth. I want this republic to be alive with new ideas, new approaches, and, yes, experimentation. We have problems--out-of-control unfair immigration process, the pile-up of long-term debt, the plight of our inner cities--but it's a do-able list, don't you think?

So let's try to get working on that list. Let's set about fixing these challenges. 

But we don't, do we? And there's no reason to believe this election is going to change things.

If Obama wins, the Democrats may keep hold of the Senate by a vote or two. But he won't have anywhere near the 60 votes necessary to kill a filibuster.  

So nothing's going to get done. Another two years and nothing's going to clear the Senate. They won't be able to deal with anything positive, like passing a fair, enforceable immigration policy. 

But let's say Romney pulls a squeaker. The Republicans will have the House and could have the Senate as well. That will give them just enough power--all they need, really--to push through a big tax cut for the wealthy, and a big cut in social and economic programs for the working poor and middle class. They can do it through "reconciliation."    

This is the difference, the big reason why Democrats should junk the filibuster. It's really only good for either not doing anything or for "cutting."  

If you want to do something, it's a towering obstacle against you. 60 votes? To get them, you have to deal away what may be the margin of success.  

Look at the stimulus package. Look at the health care bill. Think of what Obama could have done with 50 votes. Think of what could be done if we had majority rule, if we had something closer to real democracy.

This is a cause worth working toward. It is a cause that makes a point and clarifies the real difference between the two major parties. Democrats want to use government to play a positive role in American life. Republicans are content with a governing process that bends the system toward those who really, deep down, only want to cut spending and, of course, cut taxes for those with the most clout to begin with. 

It's simple: if you're a progressive, if you're interested in a positive, get-it-done role for government, then we've got to junk the filibuster.

What’s the state of the presidential race? Chris asks former Mississippi governor Haley Barbour and the Huffington Post’s Sam Stein.

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Republicans have found themselves in hot water lately after opposing the reauthorization of the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) -- something that's usually routine for Congress. The GOP has objected that the bill would include women in same-sex relationships and could let more undocumented immigrants secure temporary visas, and has offered its own version of the bill that drops these sections. 

On Hardball Monday, Chris Matthews hosted Rep. Gwen Moore, a Wisconsin Democrat, and Rep. Kathy McMorris Rodgers, a Washington Republican, to debate the VAWA reauthorization and how the issue might play this November. 

Matthews asked McMorris Rodgers why Republicans objected to including protections for women in same-sex couples.

"Those are side issues that have been attached to this bill," McMorris Rodgers said.

Matthews seemed genuinely taken aback. "They're not side issues if you're getting beat up by your partner," he responded. "That's not a side issue, that's your life!"

"I can't imagine going back to a district, rural, urban, or suburban and saying to people, 'I can't protect wives against their husbands because I don't want to do anything that suggests equality and gay relationships,'' continued Matthews. 

Let me finish tonight with this.

Over the weekend, I received an honorary degree from Howard University. It was extraordinary to be given this honor before thousands of students, parents, faculty, and friends at this historic American institution. As I said on Saturday from up on that grand stage, there is a glow in every graduate of this great university, a glow of pride in having attended an icon of African-American history, of American history.

Let me share what I said to the graduates because I gave it considerable thought. 

I said that the words we speak could be forgotten at these kinds of occasions. I wanted these students going out in the world, out to form their careers, to think of one picture: of this young man driving his car from Chicago where he lived and worked, out into the suburbs and rural areas of Illinois--just him alone in his car, a map of the state sitting on the passenger seat beside him.  

He had just been beaten for Congress on the South Side, just gotten the short end of the stick from incumbent Bobby Rush, and here he was: driving alone with guts and hope into places where people had never voted for an African-American candidate, never been asked to.

That is why Barack Obama was able to stride onto that stage at the National Democratic Convention in Boston in 2004, because he'd had the nerve to drive out of Chicago into the 'burbs and small rural towns and ask people to make a bet on him, to give him a chance. 

That was my message to the young people this weekend at Howard University: Get out there and ask people to invest in you, to make a bet on you. If they resist, make them say no to you. Make them do it. Never, ever say "no" to yourself. Get out there and go for the "yes," and don't ever say "no" to yourself.

I know it's easy for me to say that, but it doesn't stop it from being true. 

Being awarded an Honorary Doctorate in Humane Letters from Howard University is one of the great honors of my life and I am so grateful to President Ribeau, the members of the Board of Trustees, including the Bernard family, and to the students of the class of 2012 for their wonderful reception.

You’re so Bain! Team Obama is taking to five key swing states with a new ad that pummels Mitt Romney for the  years he spent as CEO of Bain Capital. It’s a familiar tactic. You might remember Newt Gingrich used a similar line of attack leading up to the South Carolina primary and we also saw it in the 1994 Massachusetts Senate race when Romney faced off against Teddy Kennedy. Much of Mitt Romney’s candidacy hinges on his success as a businessman. Will the Obama campaign be able to turn that against him and frame Romney as a corporate villain? Think Gordon Gekko. 

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Jeopardy

Chris Matthews competes on Jeopardy!

MSNBC host Chris Matthews will be playing "Hardball" not once, but twice tonight, not only on his nightly show on MSNBC, but on "Jeopardy!"where he will face off against former White House Press Secretary Robert Gibbs and CNN's Lizzie O'Leary as part of the “Jeopardy! Power Players Week,” a special edition of the show that challenges fifteen of the country’s most influential media personalities, including political figures, authors, journalists and newsmakers to compete for their favorite charity.

If Chris wins tonight, a donation of $50,000 will be made to La Salle College High School, Chris's high school.

Two other NBC'ers will also be competing for “Jeopardy! Power Players Week” -on Thursday, May 17, Chuck Todd will face off against comedian Lewis Black and Chicago Tribune's Clarence Page. On Friday, May 18, Kelly O'Donnell will compete against CNN's Anderson Cooper and The New York Times' Thomas Friedman.

Be sure to tune-in and root for Chris on tonight's Jeopardy! at 7PM ET on ABC. For more info, visit http://www.jeopardy.com/powerplayers.

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Let me finish tonight with high school.

Remember it? Remember how you were treated? By your classmates, that is?

Were you cool? Did you know the latest dances? Were you popular, part of the "in crowd"? Or did you feel awkward a lot of the time, never really part of "the scene," the social scene? 

Finally, do you remember the people you had lunch with most days? The table you knew you were welcome at, the ones you knew you weren't? Do you remember the bullies? The kids who may have been good at sports, or hung around with them, and were cold, sometimes nasty, to the kids who weren't?

Look, this guy Romney...he says he can't remember if he ever led a pack of classmates and went in search of a classmate--a kid with longish hair, a kid they figured was gay--and got on top of him, got him on the ground and, while he was screaming and crying out, Mitt Romney did the honors: cut his hair off. 

If Mitt Romney never did this, he should say so and proudly. Why would you want people to think you did it?  

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Pres. Obama pushed gay marriage and told jokes at the expense of George Clooney in a star-studded Hollywood fundraiser that netted a whopping $15 million for the president's re-election campaign. It's the largest presidential fundraiser ever.

Meanwhile Republicans leaders are steering clear of the same-sex marriage issue, at least publicly. But when will Republican strategists start using the issue behind the scenes to drive up evangelical votes against Pres. Obama?

Mitt Romney and his supporters say the bullying Romney allegedly took part in as a prep school student don't reflect who he is today. But certainly the way he faced those allegations this week reflect who he is now -- first he had an aide deny that he remembered an especially cruel episode where he led a gang of boys who forcibly cut another boy's hair because they didn't like its length or color. Then Romney apologized for anyone who may have taken offense in his behavior but said he didn't remember. Yet several other named classmates did remember the episode, so why can't Romney? 

And the defense is about to present its side of the story in the John Edwards trial. The prosecution wrapped up its often gut-wrenching case yesterday.

Let me finish tonight with this.

Barack Obama is a man of history. His very life was an event--this meeting of an American woman from Kansas with a student from Kenya. His success, leading up to his selection as editor of the Harvard Law Review, was eventful. Extraordinary, really. As he put it in that great speech in Boston eight years ago, "Only in this country is my story possible."

As I speak tonight, he has been our president for three and a half years, and we are used to something that is extraordinary: an African-American president in the White House. 

And yesterday, he did it again: becoming the president who declared himself for same-sex marriage. Years, decades from now, they will not be talking about the circumstances, merely the extraordinary fact that no one else had ever done it. He did it. He, Barack Obama.

And so we move on, perhaps, to more history.  

One thing I have come to believe, and it is political in nature, that this is what Barack Obama needs to be doing: making history. The moment he becomes just another president, maintaining the way things are, he will lose himself, his historic self. He is, I guess I'm saying, as much a captive of history as a captor. He needs to be making history over and over again, because if he stops, he stops being what he can be, and the American people will know it. 

Just think of this before you think of the politics: if you are black in this country, you know that a black man can be president because one is. If you are gay, you know that America, at its most idealistic, stands for your right to love because an American president has now declared as much.   

We live in a powerful time, and, as long as Barack Obama is at the helm, it will continue.

Rep. Barney Frank faces off with Tony Perkins in a heated debate over same-sex marriage.

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Pres. Obama supports same-sex marriage

The president's historic statement yesterday that gay couples should be allowed to marry was a milestone in American politics. But what does it mean for the 2012 election? Liberals are energized, but Pres. Obama could lose support in crucial swing states like North Carolina, where evangelical voters could tip the scales against him.

In response to the president's watershed moment, Mitt Romney re-affirmed his opposition to gay marriage. The candidates' contrast on marriage equality again casts the campaign as a choice between the past vs. the future. And for the Obama campaign -- and the Obama brand -- the benefits of being on the right side of history may ultimately outweigh the short-term political damage he might suffer.

Let me finish tonight with this: President Obama remains a maker of history.  

He was the first African-American to serve as our president. Now he is a leader of another kind, the first president to state his support for recognizing the marriage of partners of the same sex. 

However the circumstances, he now stands for re-election with this fact on the table. He stands against a candidate, Mitt Romney, who says he will never give up his opposition to gay marriage, a candidate who refuses to stand up for a gay man who has just been run out of his campaign. 

Could there be a grander canyon between these two men: one fully in support of the right of gay people to marry; one totally against that right. 

It will take a bit of time to see how this affects the presidential election. But I have to wonder how gay men and women who now work for the election of Republican members of Congress, senators, and Romney himself can sit in their work seats and refuse to stand up, walk in the direction of their bosses and candidates, and ask them to join the President on this? I have to wonder how long they can remain indentured servants, how long can they continue to accept the Republican party's "don't ask, don't tell" rule--that you can work here as long as you keep your mouth shut on what you believe, on the life you aspire to, on those you love.  

But tonight I honor a president who, regardless of the political consequences, has declared for all the world to hear that all God's children have a right to love as they were born to love.   

That ought to count for something no matter which way the chips in this election fall.

President Obama’s evolution on same-sex marriage is complete. In a move that changes the election, the president says gays should be allowed to marry. Chris talks to MSNBC political analysts Mark Halperin and Eugene Robinson.

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